Category: MoMA
PART 1: Tour NYC like a local !
My mom came to visit us! This is my mom and I (and a brunch mimosa and Stephan who took the picture, thanks Stephan):
During the time she was here we did a LOT of things, I know Brooklyn and Manhattan a little bit better now and I had 2 weeks to explore WITH someone!
This is how my mother and I did it. If you happen to live in Park Slope or actually anywhere in the world and you’re visiting New York, with or without your mother, here is a list to follow – *feel free to comment, or to ask opinions about the places or things we did.
I’ve divided the two weeks into two parts, part 1 contains the first week, from Friday 18 March (just so you have the timeframe, although the weather was quites strange and really not spring yet, so keep that in mind if you want to travel here in March) to Friday 25 March and part two is from Saturday 26 March until Saturday 2 April.
*I think I’d really like to become a tour guide đ
LIST – SIMPLE STEPS TO HAVE THE ULTIMATE TIME IN NYC WITH YOUR MOTHER WHEN YOU ARE 23, MARRIED AND ON A F-2 VISA
- Do not have job due to your visa situation – make sure your unpaid internship starts after she visited. This also ensures that you can not wait for a friend in the form of your always loving mother. (I was super excited and counted down the days đ ). For example – here are a few selfies to show you how I entertained myself before she came (and you’ll be able to read all about this in the previous posts as well!).
- Having “alone travel time” before she comes gives you time to explore the city (reaaally a lot to explore), this ensures that your list is really long when she arrives and since this is NY, there’ll still be really a lot YOU weren’t able to get to and you’ll do it together.
- Take the A train to the airport – this is worth it if you have time and you don’t have (any or a lot of) baggage (since I was going to get my mother I had none). It’s $7 for the air train to JFK when you reach the end of A. If you’re not going to Queens, DON’T  take the J train when going home… If you arrive at JFK rather call a taxi (if you’re going to Park Slope/ somewhere close to Park slope in Brooklyn, call Arecebo,  $40 pick-up/drop-off fare)
- Get your mother at the airport and go home with the Arecebo car service đ and take a selfie in the car:
- Show her around 5th Avenue and have coffee at L’Albero dei gelati:
- Have a late St. Patrick’s dinner with your lovely and extremely hardworking Stephan husband, your mother, your housemate and her son.
- Walk home with your mother to the cooool Airbnb place she lived for a week
- Start Saturday with a quick walk in Prospect Park and DELICIOUS brunch at Cheryl’s:
- Walk around Broadway, starting at Prince street and ending at Union Square
-  ALWAYS go into the book stores. Especially Barnes and Noble – they might have a Georgette Heyer book !!! We also went to see a free organ concert at 16:00 in Grace church (a really very beautiful church with stained glass windows).
- Go to the Guggenheim
- Sunday: eat some bagels in Union square park (we fed the birds a lot of the bagels) and then, to flee the cold go to Max Brenner’s Chocolate shop and drink some Chile Hot chocolate. Go to Strand books (just across the road) and the comic bookstore next to it – it’s really good bookstores!
- Walk further up up up in Broadway, go into stores and have lunch along the way until you reach Macy’s. By then we were really tired, went home for a nap and went back to 14th street to go to Redeemer Church at 17:00. After church go to Macdougal (nice historic street with LOTS of nice restaurants) and have a DELICIOUS Italian dinner, because by now your mother will be needing a good dinner and some wine đ
- Monday: Start the day by visiting the Neue Galerie and having some Klimt cake at the Café Sabarsky. It had some gold leaf and everything! Klimt would have enjoyed this!
- Then head down the road to the Metropolitan Museum, pick a specific section you want to see (otherwise you’ll never finish, rush and not be able to take anything in properly) and head there and do one unexpected turn. I find that’s the best way to see the Met with your “mammatjie” (mother but small, it’s Afrikaans o.k.). In this case we went to see the Islamic art section to look at the rugs and we also saw a special exhibition for VigĂ©e Le Brun. She was a very impressive eighteenth century female painter).
- After the Met museum you’ll probably be hungry, and they have food at the Met at the cafeteria downstairs as well as the cafĂ©. But I find if you’re done in the museum anyway, you’d be able to find a nicer restaurant for the same/ a lower price. SO skip the part where you take your mother to the supermarket and you pick something and they weigh it) just head to Dumbo, to Juliana’s from the start!
- A good way to start your Tuesday would be to head up to the Upper West Side again and go to the Ralph Lauren Woman and home flagship store (and get a free cappuccino) before going to the Frick Collection.
- Head over to Central park for a walk until you find the Boat House Express CafĂ©. You CAN go to the restaurant, I’m sure it’s very nice but if you’re on a budget the cafĂ© is great and they have small bottles of wine for $7 and they also serve burgers for $5.
- **Optional: Continue to walk through the park to the other side and look for a restaurant you, your mother and sister enjoyed 3 years ago. Find it and go and look at the place Stephan is currently interning at before going to Telio, the Greek restaurant with reasonable prices, good pizza and lamb gyros.
- On a Wednesday it would be a good idea to go to the Brooklyn Botanical garden and that’s what we did just after working a while in the library (Brooklyn Public Library – great for free classes etc!) and for lunch go to Cheryl’s again. đ
- Then just walk down Union street, have some more coffee and buy Turkey burger patties (no, don’t, because it doesn’t really taste as nice as chicken OR beef, but it’s everywhere, cheap and looked worth trying, so we tried it) and eat at home with Stephan as well.
- Moving down a little more in 5th avenue – we looked at all of the beautifully designed window displays and we went in a t the Polo store (Ralph Lauren designes Polo) and had some coffee at Ralph’s. Another nice thing about these (out of my league) stores, is the fact that they almost always have free rest room facilities :D. Always go into Gap as well – they usually have a good special – we each got a sweater for $12 or less ( my mother’s was $7!) and a really nice scarf for $3.
- We then met with Stephan at Eataly for lunch – I’ll have another picture update because I don’t have the nice Eataly pictures with me now).
- If you’re in Brooklyn and you want to see, well pretty much the ultimate supermarket (supersupermarket?) kind of like Woolworths in South Africa  but bigger, there is a ginormous Whole foods on the corner of 3rd street and 3rd avenue and I only bought a spanakopita (greek spinach and feta pie, $3,50) but it’s quite cool to just look at everything. Calexico for dinner is ALWAYS a good idea đ be prepared to stand in a bit of a line, it’s worth it!!
- Start Friday morning by helping your mother pick everything up from the bnb space and take it to your own apartment before having some breakfast and spreads at Le Pain Quotidian. We especially enjoyed the little pots of coffee you get there!
- We then went to the Brooklyn museum, had some lunch there and went to Ikea and took the wrong bus but saw Red Hook through the windows so it actually worked out quite well!
- To be continued – Read about Niagara falls, Williamsburg, the Morgan Library and 2 birthdays in the next post!!!
Hello March!
This blog update is just to fill you in on the potentially awesome things you could do in New York when you aren’t allowed to work, or at least, this is what I did in the first week of March:
Monday – I ran over Brooklyn bridge… again! (still new to me) AND I made a video about it. And I had another Spanish class. I also discovered TWO SHELVES of oboe books in the Brooklyn Public Library!!!
Tuesday – I visited the OGS (Office of Global Services at NYU) told me I am able to do internships on my F-2 visa as long as I recieve absolutely NO compensation… đ To celebrate, I went to the Transport museum (see pictures!) and in the evening I went to a Redeemer group and met lots of lovely new people from church.
Wednesday – I went to the Metropolitan Museum, did a tour about “Fashion in Art” and I also listened a free lecture about “Drawing for Portraits” at the Frick museum.
Thursday – I officially started helping out at Aphrochic! đ
Friday – I went to Lenox Hill House to discuss my volunteer work for their annual Spring Gala, I also did a tour at MoMA about Mrs. Bloch-Bauer (she took her husband’s surname and added it to hers and he also did the same, extremely modern for 1900’s) and then I watched Chicken Run in the very nice MoMA cinema’s! I had a late lunch and went to the New York Historical Society, a VERY cool museum next to the Museum of Natural History. We also decided to watch the free film the had on show and we watched Alfred Hitchcock’s Vertigo.
Saturday – I had another 8am run with the PPTC (Prospect Park Track Club)Â and then I paid my $25 and became an official member! We had some lunch and went to the NYU BOBST library.
Sunday – We went to see Louie Giglio (first only on a screen fro New Jersey and then in the 5pm we saw him LIVE after rushing from Irving Plaza to the Times Square service, I have to yay for the Q-train, it’s really quick) at Hillsong and did washing and had some tea and cake with our friend Uma. Just something interesting I saw on Sunday as well, when you take the Q train from Brooklyn, be sure to sit on the left hand side (left if you look to the front a.k.a. the direction the train is going in) and look out for subway art!( Click here for some more background, the video isn’t my own but it shows it well enough until you can come here to 1.visit me and 2.experience it for yourself đ ).
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Meeting Marcel & cooking a masterpiece
Yesterday I got to know about a new quirky artist (well, new to me), Marcel Broodthaers at the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA). I became an âArtist Memberâ of this wonderful institution on Tuesday (for $35 dollars instead of $85 for a ânormal memberâ) because if you have your portfolio online in 2016 MoMA considers you to be an artist! As a member one of the perks is to see exhibitions before they are open to the rest of the public. Today there was a conversation and live music with violinists AndrĂ© and Yaga Siwy, friends of Marcel Broodthaers (click on link to read more about Broodthaers) who performed in his exhibitions in the 1960s.
 These people were his neighbours at a time when he was beginning to become a visual artists. They were music students and lived in the apartment close by. At the conversation they talked about how Marcel couldnât understand why they constantly played the same music over and over again (scales) and why musicians had to work so hard. They said Broodthaers loved a good joke and often asked them to play inanimate objects, such as a âchairâ or a âman who smokesâ. What was especially interesting was that Broodthaers thought it was strange to think that a musician has to work so hard to play and master an instrument, to become a master of his trade while a visual artist didnât necessarily have to do that – he didnât. I am planning a few blog updates about art, about what is art and also an essay about Broodthaers: his life, work and philosophy.
(Interview with MoMA about this exhibition and Marcel Broodthaers)
I then started reading “What is Art?” written by Leo Tolstoy in the gift shop and I plan to read the whole book and make that part of my whole search (blog update alert! đ ) for an answer to this unanswerable question. The rest of the freezing day (-3 degrees Celsius) wasn’t really remarkable until we got home and made some sublime food in our smashing new skillet.
We discovered “Kielbasa” and grilled it along with onions, red pepper, broccoli, potatoes and added a pasta sauce and some Campbells Cream of Mushroom soup! The whole meal was about $8 (and we would’ve been able to eat it for another meal but we didn’t leave any leftovers XD).